Festishes. Everyone has them. That one (or several) thing/s that turns you on. It’s unique to each person. Some things just get you. For men, it’s probably the obvious stuff; boobs, feet, ass. For women there are “experiences” that get you. Scents, situations, or the memories associated with the dresses hanging in her closet. For me, I’ve always had a thing for nice hotels. High priced cocktails and anticipation building in sparkling elevators. J. Cole’s “Lights Please” somehow captures the need for sex, the complex emotions and complications of affairs. For that it’s a song that inspires certain “feelings” in me. He does, of course, refer to the woman as uneducated, but it’s rap, what can you expect.

You see I peeped it, pussy is power
That proud feeling we get knowin’ that pussy is ours
And how it feels to feel that feeling
You feeling when you be drillin’ that shit
Got her sayin’ you be killin’ that shit
And all the pain the world cause she be healin’ that shit
And naw that ain’t your girl, dog, but you be feelin’ that chick
And you just wanna tell her everything she might need
But in the meantime it’s lights please

Motivational Monday is The Stoner Mom’s weekly music post. In 2015 all songs are personal rap favorites. The playlist can be found here and is a good one for getting stuff done in the house when the kids are gone.